Most of us didn't learn how to create and be in relationships that

support each person to thrive, so we lack the tools, language & awareness to create & navigate new relationships or re-define existing ones.

This is why we decided to do this pop-up, 4-week relationship class. We want to share the wisdom, tools, and processes it's taken us 20 years in a growing, changing, thriving partnership to learn + live.

We call it Choosing ME + WE (like a sequel to Christine's book Choosing ME Before WE)

The intention: Create the Supportive, Thriving Relationships You Desire & Deserve.

We call this 'sacred partnership' - relationships rooted in wholeness, where both sovereignty and unity co-exist, in which both people can grow and prosper more because of the healthy, loving connection.

Who is invited: All people exploring relationships are welcome. Whether you are exploring new relationships, re-defining existing ones, or getting yourself ready to open to true partnership, you are invited.

We start on August 16th

4 Weeks (all sessions are recorded)

Read more about the experience below + register.
It will be enlightening, expansive, and fun.

Like an end of summer love boost!

Most of us didn't learn how to create and be in relationships that support each person to thrive, so we lack the tools, language & awareness to create & navigate new relationships or re-define existing ones.

This is why we decided to do this pop-up, 4-week relationship class. We want to share the wisdom, tools, and processes it's taken us 20 years in a growing, changing, thriving partnership to learn + live.

We call it Choosing ME + WE (like a sequel to Christine's book Choosing ME Before WE)

The intention: Create the Supportive, Thriving Relationships You Desire & Deserve.

We call this 'sacred partnership' - relationships rooted in wholeness, where both sovereignty and unity co-exist, in which both people can grow and prosper more because of the healthy, loving connection.

Who is invited: All people exploring relationships are welcome. Whether you are exploring new relationships, re-defining existing ones, or getting yourself ready to open to true partnership, you are invited.

We start on August 16th - 4 Weeks (all sessions are recorded)

Read more about the experience below + register. It will be enlightening, expansive, and fun. Like an end of summer love boost!

What You'll Leave This Experience With to Support You On Your Relationship Path

We only have 4 weeks together, so we can't share everything we've learned and lived in the past 20 years. So we chose to focus on these 4 intentions that you will walk away with if you join us for this Summer of Love Experience (or Winter of Love for those of you South the Equator!)


You will have:

A felt sense of and language for the partnership & relationship you desire. Once you can speak it, feel it & see it, you can create it.

More Self- Awareness of your triggers, wounds, & patterns that sabotage... and what you need to feel safe, supported and met. So you can do this relationship journey differently.

A backpack of energetic, emotional, mental & somatic practices to clear and reset your personal field and the relational field. So when wobbles happen you can re-center in love.

More wisdom for how healthy, thriving relationships grow over time + tools to navigate the dynamics. So you create healing and expansion for you and your other.

The Structure

The Triangle of Sacred Transformation

We will use the model Christine developed to help people successfully navigate transformation in a way that leads to new, elevated realities in whatever realm you are focusing on - in this case - relationship.

It's called the Triangle of Sacred Transformation (see the glyph). "Sacred" means wholeness, with respect, and without violence to self or other. Sacred transformation is choosing to create an elevated experience of relationship and partnership, rooted in wholeness, with compassion, curiosity, clarity and courage.

Unfortunately we can't just wish or manifest our way to this new relationship reality. Transformation happens at 3 levels simultaneously, which is why it's so challenging and why it's wise to have support to accompany you as you stretch, heal and harmonize through the process.

Join Us for the Class

THE FLOW

4 Sessions * One Realm Per Week
Co-Create the New & Next * Heal & Release the Past
* Harmonize the Now * Integrate & Elevate

THE FLOW

4 Sessions * One Realm Per Week
Co-Create the New & Next * Heal & Release the Past
* Harmonize the Now * Integrate & Elevate



Week 1: CREATE THE NEW & NEXT

Elevate Your Relationship Set-Points +
Co-Create the Relationship Reality You Desire

  • Define & Feel What Partnership Means to You Now, and What You Desire & Require - So you are clear on what you both need and want. So you can create from an open heart and expanded awareness vs. limited mental ideas and expectations.
  • Remove Cultural Imprints, Past Experiences & Self-Imposed Expectations about Relationship - that might be unconsciously interfering with what you truly desire.
  • Upgrade Your Relationship Intelligence - Learn what supportive, growing and thriving relationships look and feel like (and the warning signs of a relationship that is not that).
  • The Core Four - Tap into and give language to the essence of who you desire to be in relationship with, that goes beyond a list of traits. Whether it's someone new or existing, when you get clear on the essence & feeling of this person, you are much more likely to be able to discern if a person is the partner you desire.

You will go into your life and experiment with seeing new possibilities in your existing relationships and situations... and opening to expanded possibilities in new ones. You'll start to see what you do want, and what you don't.



Week 1: CREATE THE NEW & NEXT

Elevate Your Relationship Set-Points + Co-Create the Relationship Reality You Desire

  • Define & Feel What Partnership Means to You Now, and What You Desire & Require - So you are clear on what you both need and want. So you can create from an open heart and expanded awareness vs. limited mental ideas and expectations.
  • Remove Cultural Imprints, Past Experiences & Self-Imposed Expectations about Relationship - that might be unconsciously interfering with what you truly desire.
  • Upgrade Your Relationship Intelligence - Learn what supportive, growing and thriving relationships look and feel like (and the warning signs of a relationship that is not that).
  • The Core Four - Tap into and give language to the essence of who you desire to be in relationship with, that goes beyond a list of traits. Whether it's someone new or existing, when you get clear on the essence & feeling of this person, you are much more likely to be able to discern if a person is the partner you desire.

You will go into your life and experiment with seeing new possibilities in your existing relationships and situations... and opening to expanded possibilities in new ones. You'll start to see what you do want, and what you don't.



Week 2: HEAL & RELEASE THE PAST

Release Relationship “Goop”
Heal through Joy, Self-Love & Connection

  • Name and Understand your "Love Cracks," "Tender Spots," and Relationship Triggers - bring them into the open and give them language, so when you get triggered in creating this next expression of partnership (which you will), you can be aware when they show up, and respond from wholeness and reality vs. react from the wound or memory.
  • Reveal Your "Relationship Field” - Learn and go through an energetic experience we call “The Relationship Field” that reveals the patterns, energetic frequencies and history that impacts your relationship experience now consciously and unconsciously. This way you can consciously choose to release the pattern within you that would cause you to create similar relationship dynamics now and in the future.
  • Learn Self-Healing and Self-Empowering Practices and Processes that Empower You to Go Through Relational Wobbles with Love & Grace vs. Fear & Struggle - You will have a toolkit of energetic, self-love, somatic, and mind/emotional transformation practices to use when you get triggered, feel wobbly or make sabotaging choices.
  • Experience Healing & Releasing - We will use the collective power of the field we co create together to release the common patterns and energies that prevent you from creating the kinds of partnerships you know are possible.

Together we will clear out the old imprints and any energetic interference, so you can heal with love, and create the now and next from wholeness vs. the wound.



Week 2: HEAL & RELEASE THE PAST

Release Relationship “Goop” - Heal through Joy, Self-Love & Connection

  • Name and Understand your "Love Cracks," "Tender Spots," and Relationship Triggers - bring them into the open and give them language, so when you get triggered in creating this next expression of partnership (which you will), you can be aware when they show up, and respond from wholeness and reality vs. react from the wound or memory.
  • Reveal Your "Relationship Field” - Learn and go through an energetic experience we call “The Relationship Field” that reveals the patterns, energetic frequencies and history that impacts your relationship experience now consciously and unconsciously. This way you can consciously choose to release the pattern within you that would cause you to create similar relationship dynamics now and in the future.
  • Learn Self-Healing and Self-Empowering Practices and Processes that Empower You to Go Through Relational Wobbles with Love & Grace vs. Fear & Struggle - You will have a toolkit of energetic, self-love, somatic, and mind/emotional transformation practices to use when you get triggered, feel wobbly or make sabotaging choices.
  • Experience Healing & Releasing - We will use the collective power of the field we co create together to release the common patterns and energies that prevent you from creating the kinds of partnerships you know are possible.

Together we will clear out the old imprints and any energetic interference, so you can heal with love, and create the now and next from wholeness vs. the wound.



Week 3: HARMONIZE & STABILIZE THE NOW

Learn elevated tools, wisdom & practices to use in the relationship experiences that occur - both the challenging and the glorious

  • Power Poles: Learn about how Power Dynamics play out in relationship, and where challenges and opportunities might arise for you.  
  • Connection Dials: Vulnerability, Intensity and Connection Levels - what's too much, too soon or not enough. Know your bias and how it serves you and also sabotages you and the relationship.
  • Conflict Tools: Turn conflict (which happens in healthy relationships) into connection and the good kind of creative tension. Learn how to set boundaries or open hearts when it turns into something else.
  • Communicating & Co-Creating vs. Mind Reading & Ego-Dancing: Name your needs and desires in healthy ways vs. the other stuff you've learned (lol). Spot when your egos are dancing vs. your hearts co-creating.

These tools and ways of seeing will empower you to see what's really going on in the "WE" and in each of the "MEs." Practical. Potent. They shift the energy within us and within the field between two people.



Week 3: HARMONIZE & STABILIZE THE NOW

Learn elevated tools, wisdom & practices to use in the relationship experiences that occur - both the challenging and the glorious

  • Power Poles: Learn about how Power Dynamics play out in relationship, and where challenges and opportunities might arise for you.  
  • Connection Dials: Vulnerability, Intensity and Connection Levels - what's too much, too soon or not enough. Know your bias and how it serves you and also sabotages you and the relationship.
  • Conflict Tools: Turn conflict (which happens in healthy relationships) into connection and the good kind of creative tension. Learn how to set boundaries or open hearts when it turns into something else.
  • Communicating & Co-Creating vs. Mind Reading & Ego-Dancing: Name your needs and desires in healthy ways vs. the other stuff you've learned (lol). Spot when your egos are dancing vs. your hearts co-creating.

These tools and ways of seeing will empower you to see what's really going on in the "WE" and in each of the "MEs." Practical. Potent. They shift the energy within us and within the field between two people.



Week 4: INTEGRATION & ELEVATION

The symbol above is called the Vesica Pisces - it's an ancient symbol that symbolizes two wholes (the two circles) that come together in connection to create a new third (the center shape where the circles overlap).

In sacred partnership - both people are whole, not needing another to make them whole. So instead of connecting at the wound (which many relationships do), you connect to each other's wholeness. Which enables the relationship to be a supportive source for you each to experience and embody more wholeness.

You both experience supportive growth, the kind that stretches and holds you, the way a good yoga practice does.

This symbol is on our marriage ring. It's where we live from, love from and teach from,

It's a place we come home to when hard things happen, and when the field between us gets wonky.

Because it does - any great relationship has both ease and tension.

It's the how our partnership continues to grow and change, as we do, so we rise together.




Week 4: INTEGRATION & ELEVATION

The symbol above is called the Vesica Pisces - it's an ancient symbol that symbolizes two wholes (the two circles) that come together in connection to create a new third (the center shape where the circles overlap).

In sacred partnership - both people are whole, not needing another to make them whole. So instead of connecting at the wound (which many relationships do), you connect to each other's wholeness. Which enables the relationship to be a supportive source for you each to experience and embody more wholeness.

You both experience supportive growth, the kind that stretches and holds you, the way a good yoga practice does.

This symbol is on our marriage ring. It's where we live from, love from, and teach from. It's a place we come home to when hard things happen, and when the field between us gets wonky. Because it does - any great relationship has both ease and tension. It's how our partnership continues to grow and change, as we do, so we rise together.


What if your path to creating the relationship you desire could be expansive, energizing and a source of joy?

Yes. Expect there will be challenges & wobbles - that's part of relationship. And... this can be an experience that supports you to grow in so many ways. If you have the consciousness, courage, compassion, and tools for the adventure!

Consider Yourself Invited.
This will be done live & in community with other conscious humans.
Or you can do it as a self-study at your own pace.

Details are below.

Consider Yourself Invited.
Details are below.

This will be done live & in community with other conscious women. Or you can do it as a self-study at your own pace.

CHOOSING ME & WE
Create the Supportive, Thriving Relationships You Desire and Deserve.

Special 4-week Summer of Love Pop-Up Class

WHERE:

We've have created this class to be done in your life. Because your life will become the experimentation and learning grounds for what we share and you learn about yourself and relationships.

We will gather online via zoom, but these won't be 'calls' or 'presentations.' We've been teaching using online technology for over 13 years, so these are interactive sessions where we create a field of connection, wisdom and community. We don't talk at you. We create a field for insight and breakthrough for and with you.

WHEN:

  • We do this over four weeks - August 16th to Sepember 6th - with live interactive sessions held at 4:30 pm PT | 7:30 PM ET | Next Day: 9:30am AEST. You can attend all sessions live, only some live or none live and just watch the recordings. Sessions run 90 minutes (teachings, self awareness and application, embodiment practices and group discussion) plus an optional 30 minute segment with breakouts. For those of you in time zones where you will be sleeping, we will post up recording that same day, so you have it when you wake up!
  • Each session, while they build on each other, also stands on its own, so if you miss a week, no worries, you can just pick up where we are, and go back later and tune in to what you missed.
  • Everything is recorded, and stored on a private online community library and site, which you'll continue to have access to.
Live Class Schedule Here

CHOOSING ME & WE
Create the Supportive, Thriving Relationships You Desire and Deserve.

Special 4-week Summer of Love Pop-Up Class

WHERE:

We've have created this class to be done in your life. Because your life will become the experimentation and learning grounds for what we share and you learn about yourself and relationships.

We will gather online via zoom, but these won't be 'calls' or 'presentations.' We've been teaching using online technology for over 13 years, so these are interactive sessions where we create a field of connection, wisdom and community. We don't talk at you. We create a field for insight and breakthrough for and with you.

WHEN:

  • We do this over four weeks - August 16th to Sepember 6th - with live interactive sessions held at 4:30 pm PT | 7:30 PM ET | Next Day: 9:30am AEST. You can attend all sessions live, only some live or none live and just watch the recordings. Sessions run 90 minutes (teachings, self awareness and application, embodiment practices and group discussion) plus an optional 30 minute segment with breakouts. For those of you in time zones where you will be sleeping, we will post up recording that same day, so you have it when you wake up!
  • Each session, while they build on each other, also stands on its own, so if you miss a week, no worries, you can just pick up where we are, and go back later and tune in to what you missed.
  • Everything is recorded, and stored on a private online community library and site, which you'll continue to have access to.

EXCHANGE:

Tuition is $188 per person.
Pay in one payment or in 3-installments of $64.


The Choosing Me + We Course Includes:

  • The full 4-part Choosing Me & We teachings, models, practices, exercises and inquiries.
  • 4 interactive sessions (also recorded and accessible online)
  • Online Wisdom Library and Private Online Community (not on social media) where all the materials are housed for easy access for you, and where you can connect during the live course and after.
  • Community and connection with other conscious beings + access to the process and recordings through 2022.

If you have questions, our team is happy to answer them. Reach out via email to Melissa Zimmer at Love@Arylo.com


Here's Your Next Step:
Register and Claim Your Space Today

We'd love to have you with us in this intentional experience for conscious humans choosing to create conscious, elevated relationships. It's possible, and it's a choice.

When you register, we’ll send you an email with the dates to put on your calendar.
We look forward to spending these 4 weeks with you.
We promise it will be enlightening, empowering + fun!


You can choose three-payments of $64 or one-payment of $188

Click Here to Register for Choosing Me & We



Here's Your Next Step:
Register and Claim Your Space Today

We'd love to have you with us in this intentional experience for conscious humans choosing to create conscious, elevated relationships. It's possible, and it's a choice.

When you register, we’ll send you an email with the dates to put on your calendar. We look forward to spending these 4 weeks with you. We promise it will be enlightening, empowering + fun!


You can choose three-payments of $64 or one-payment of $188



This is not another to-do.
This is a structure to support, energize & inspire you.

This is not another to-do. This is a structure to support, energize & inspire you.

About Christine Arylo, Lead Teacher and Facilitator

Christine Arylo is leadership advisor, transformational speaker and best selling author who leads retreats, workshops and programs around the world, working with people to make shift happen – in the lives they lead and work they do.

She combines her 25 years of corporate, business, MBA and social impact entrepreneurship experience with 20 years of wisdom study in human consciousness and yogic science and the sacred feminine and indigenous earth teachings.

For more than a decade she has been a catalyst, mentor, and advisor for established and emerging leaders and visionary entrepreneurs at organizations across of spectrum of industries - from healthcare to education to tech and finance to government, retail, corporate, social impact and more. People on six continents have participated in and benefited from her professional and personal transformational programs and workshops. Her fresh and innovative ideas and models for social and personal change have appeared on tv, radio, newspapers and blogs for over a decade.

Christine has been a passionate advocate for women and girls since founding The Path of Self Love, in 2007, an organization that has trained 100 facilitators worldwide, and has worked with organizations such a Girls Inc, The Girl Scouts and high schools, colleges and prison systems with her methodology.

You can learn about her podcast Feminine Power Time at www.FemininePowerTime.com. Her latest and fourth book is Overwhelmed and Over It: Embrace Your Power To Stay Centered and Sustained in a Chaotic World, www.OverwhelmedandOverIt.com.

Learn more about Christine at www.ChristineArylo.com 
Learn more about the people she's worked with on her
LinkedIn Page here.


About Noah Martin, Co-Teacher and Facilitator

Noah Martin is a master at helping individuals and couples see and release the invisible barriers they create to keep them from the love, friendship and intimacy they desire. He's had an innate knack for navigating relationships ever since he can remember (including helping his mother navigate office politics as young as the age of 8.)

Noah left his analytical corporate consulting career in 2012 to work along with his partner in life and business Christine Arylo, including living and working from all over the world for 3 years.

Noah’s brings a unique mix of the analytical and the intuitive to support people in making wise, aligned decisions in their relationships, businesses and big life decisions.

His powerful toolbox blends the traditional and non-traditional including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica, a BA in Economics, and training in multiple energy modalities including Hypnotherapy, Energy Psychology, Shamanism and Family Constellations. He's also trained a relationship and individual coach. All of which has made him a valuable ally for people who want to create strong partnerships where both people can thrive.

Learn more about Noah at www.CoachingByNoah.com